Sometimes when we are planning ahead for our future we don’t expect how things would change, we just picture one part of the future that in our mind is the best version and when things don’t go as we want them to we lose hope and feel like our whole future is ruined. We forget the fact that it’s Allah’s plan! Allah’s plans are always the best! At first we feel disappointed but when we start living with this version of our future we start to understand that it actually is the best thing that ever happened to us!
Never ever question Allah’s plans, it is in our nature to feel bad when things don’t go as we want them but if we have tawakul and our hearts are pure, we will understand that Allah is planning for something better for us. If you’re old enough but you still aren’t married don’t think of this as a bad thing in fact think about it in this way, what if you got married at a young age and what if the husband/wife you had wasn’t good for you and your life would have turned miserable? Allah knows exactly when is the right time for you to be married and to whom you should be married. It is seriously a big issue because females always feel that they lack something when their marriage is delayed, and the society makes them feel worse by their unnecessary questions they make a girl question her purity but my dear friend don’t worry about what people have to say because they won’t stop talking anyway, people have said awful things to our prophet, and who are we compared to him.
Another common problem is choosing the career, when you’re in high school and you want to become a doctor and that is your one and only dream but when something happens like you don’t get good grades or your parents can’t afford it, you feel like the whole world ended for you, you feel useless, you choose any field that would just make the paychecks for you, but when you grow a little older you start realizing that you weren’t made for med school, if you went there you would have failed miserably, and the field that you’re in is the best one for you! Why is that? it’s because Allah chose it for you! And Allah’s plans are always perfect and flawless!
We are all being tested in this duniya, everyone is tested differently, how we deal with our problems makes us who we are, don’t say why me ya Allah, why am I facing all these problems, why I always have to fail. Instead thank Allah for all the blessings that you have, this thing that you want could be the reason for your misery if it happened before its time, Allah knows best and he will give you the best of everything just have faith and be patient.
Remember these ayat:
وَعَسَىٰ أَن تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَهُوَ خَيْرٌ لَّكُمْ ۖ وَعَسَىٰ أَن تُحِبُّوا شَيْئًا وَهُوَ شَرٌّ لَّكُمْ ۗ وَاللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ وَأَنتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ (216) سورة البقرة
it may be that you dislike a thing and the same is good for you, and you love a thing and the same is bad for you: Allah knows but you do not.(216) Surah Al-Baqara
قُل لَّن يُصِيبَنَا إِلَّا مَا كَتَبَ اللَّهُ لَنَا هُوَ مَوْلَانَا ۚ وَعَلَى اللَّهِ فَلْيَتَوَكَّلِ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ (51) سورة التوبة
Say to them, “Nothing (good or badcan befall us except that which Allah has destined for us: Allah is our Guardian and the Believers should put their trust in Him alone.” (51) Surah At-tawba
وَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى اللَّهِ ۚ وَكَفَىٰ بِاللَّهِ وَكِيلًا (81) سورة النساء
and put your trust in Allah. Allah is sufficient as a guardian. (81) Surah An-Nisaa
Put your trust in ALLAH the best planner and never lose hope no matter what the future holds for you, always know that it’s the best because it is planned by the perfect ONE ❤❤❤